Allana Pratt’s most recent delicious dose of intimacy advice is prompted by a gentleman’s plea for help. The issue? He’s always the one to initiate lovin’.
Question: I always initiate. Does this mean she doesn’t like me? How can I change this?
I’m pretty sure if she didn’t like you, she wouldn’t be hanging around.
If you want her to initiate more, it’s time to have that conversation, something like, “I love desiring you and claiming you. It would make me feel appreciated and desirable if you would take the lead sometimes. Does that work for you?”
She’ll say yes or no.
No? Then you have to decide if you can be with that. If she says, sure, then great! If she says she’s timid about that, then tell her about this woman’s videos you watched and how she loves to empower women to feel amazing about their sexuality for themselves and as a gift to their partners and show her my book HowToBeAndStaySexy.com. She can download the first chapter audio and text for free to check me out.
For YOU holding space for her, not turning into an agenda or strategy which will push her away, here’s how you can be your best self and the space for her to show and claim you: GetHerToSayYes.com That’s my free report for men that helps them cure the nice guy, release shame about their healthy natural normal sexual desires and master the art of getting her to say yes!
LMK how things shift when you ask for what you want in a way that sets her up to win, and allows you to have the life you desire.