When one MeetMindful reader reaches out to declare “My girlfriend has a crush on my brother,” there’s only one woman for the job. Allana Pratt returns!
Question:
My girlfriend told me she has a crush on my brother! While I really hope she was just messing around, I don’t think she was. I think she told me to see how I would react. What do I do with this information? It’s tearing me apart!
Answer:
Fabulous men must run in the family!
But seriously, it makes you feel weird, Huh? Jealous?
Let’s open your courageous heart superwide and lean in to this trigger.
Have women passed you over for your brother in the past? Have you and your brother been in competition most of your life? Is this woman consciously or unconsciously toying with your insecurities? Is this an opportunity to not let another’s behaviors or opinions determine your worth your safety or your centeredness?
Yes, perhaps she’s just joking and yet the main gift is that it’s bothered you and that means there’s our work to do with your sense of worthiness.
If she is indeed more interested in your brother then what would honor you is to bless and release her and not go into insecure justification of your worth.
If she’s just joking, then be grateful for the opportunity to let go of unhealthy draining competition with your brother and bless and release him on his journey, then step into your gifts talents and grandeur personally and professionally.
Truly being able to define your worth by your own sense of self and connection to your spirit is not a journey for the faint of heart. I’ve written a wonderful complementary training called “How To Be A Noble Badass” that I love you to download and read, tonight! You can instant access to it here: GetHerToSayYes.com
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“Get Her To Say Yes 101” simply goes way deeper into the heart wound that may be there for you… because it includes an extraordinary Healing Guided Heart Meditation that men have reported has changed their dating life forever.
In life, once you have an awareness… The next step is to take action!
So take action with one of those books that resonates with you more… And stay in touch with me so I know how you’re doing. I’m literally in touch with clients from 10 to 15 years ago who send me emails of how their lives continue to unfold realizing the dream after dream. It’s what fuels me to get up every morning… I love and celebrate you all so much!!! 🙂
Huge blessings XO XO Allana