in: Dating & Relationships

“I feel like a piece of meat!” with Allana Pratt

Oh dear, oh dear. Tired of feeling the eyes of men bear down on you? Allana Pratt has some advice that just might change the view.


I am tired of feeling like a piece of meat. I go to the gym and men keep hitting on me and trying to pick me up. I am single so while I welcome the attention, this is not how I want to meet someone. Where are all of the nice guys? I’m done with the pigs.


I hear you. You want to feel like a work of art, not a piece of meat. Couple of things…

1. Careful calling men pigs.

You will manifest your beliefs. Not all men are pigs. And I get that you don’t appreciate the way they are treating you at the gym, yet if Door #1 says, Men Are Pigs… that’s all you’ll find.

What if you closed that door and opened Door #2 with the belief “Men are noble and treat me like a work of art”? What if you started asking questions like: what would it take for me to meet all sorts of men today that treated me like a work of art? I wonder what you’d find…

2. Careful affirming that you’re a piece of meat!

Quite often, we women don’t know how to handle men’s attraction to us and we contract, get scared, and feel inferior or like an object. What if you breathed, opened and affirmed, Thank you. I am a Goddess. Thank you for noticing I’m a work of art. What if that is how you responded to them? What if you transformed their attention by how you were being, how you saw yourself?

3. I share in the video a story of me dancing.

It’s a simple process that will help you shift this experience. Bottom line, how we think of ourselves is generally how people treat us. A woman who loves her body, who has an open heart, who has self respect and shines her radiance on the world, tends to attract noble men who honor, respect and treat her like the goddess she is…

I have a book called How to Be and Stay Sexy with many more tips, tools and practices to help you attract the love and attention you deserve, being exactly who you are. I recommend you listen to that while on the treadmill and see the new results with men… Keep me posted!


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About the Author:

Allana Pratt

Featured on CBS, TLC, FOX, coach to celebrities, a cum laude graduate of Columbia, Allana’s a single mom who battled an internal war of body shame and sexual guilt that destroyed her confidence, joy and softness. Now, author of three books, she pole dances for pleasure, and knows ‘When mama’s happy, everybody’s happy!’ She inspires women to embrace their sacred erotic nature to attract all the love and attention they choose and heals men’s emasculated hearts, cures their ‘nice guy’ and awakens their noble badass honoring of women.Thousands flock to her sexy empowering show Intimate Conversations LIVE. She’s here to end sexual violence on the planet, have stupid amounts of joy as a mother, ooze sensuality and inspire reverence for our exquisite sexual nature.


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